I'm working and I can hear a conversation between Jensy and Shawn. She is asking him if she can sleep downstairs and he's telling her no, because she's too cranky the next day, etc. So she says: (you can imagine her voice)
WELL... YOU are just RUINING my LIFE. and YOU are RUINING ME!...(and runs up to her room).
I said to Shawn, did you ever think at 5 Jensyn would be telling you you're ruining her life?
He thought maybe at 16.
oh boy.